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  1. Vickie Vickie Acklin
    November 6, 2020 @ 7:35 pm

    Carmen, thank you so much for sharing your experience. I’m so glad you decided to stay in this life. I sure do understand how life can be really hard sometimes. Now you are healing people! I would love to hear more about that. You are now an author on the site!

    • Carmen Carmen
      November 6, 2020 @ 8:35 pm

      Well my post looks very nice with the pictures and editing you have done, Vickie. Thanks for that. I’ve been wanting to write about this for a long time and I’m glad I finally did. I remember it like it was yesterday. I’ll be writing more as I get time. I love this website!

      • Avatar photoHarris
        July 15, 2021 @ 8:58 pm

        Carmen sounds like me last yr, the pandemic, political morass, lack of ability to do anything meaningful to myself or others, and to top it off, I felt horrible physically, felt like I was slowly dieing, just had a problem going to mailbox every day and sleeping less than what I really needed or wanted, I was trying to use sleep to escape my rough feelings, but with prayer and staring intent to heal any physical discomfort, so I did come out the downward spiral. So glad I now feel so much better. Great article, Thanks.

        • Carmen Carmen
          July 17, 2021 @ 8:09 am

          I’m glad you’re feeling better, Harris. That sounds like depression and once you’re in it, it’s a hard thing to climb out of. I think talking to people about how you feel helps a lot. For me, I’ve learned that life is a series of good days and not too good days. I have learned that this seems to be true with everybody. Apparently, we are here to experience both the good and the not too good. I LOVE your new post!

  2. Avatar photoBeth
    November 7, 2020 @ 7:59 am

    This is such a sad and happy story. It made me cry. My sister was in an accident and I wondered if she had a choice. She didn’t come back.

    • Vickie Vickie Acklin
      November 7, 2020 @ 8:05 am

      Hello Beth, I’m sorry about your sister. Whatever the choice she made was the right one. You can be assured of that. Welcome to the site.

    • Avatar photoHarris
      July 15, 2021 @ 9:04 pm

      Yes she made the right decision, death is not the end, it’s a New beginning! At my age if I should leave I will struggle to stay there as my place in heaven is built and waiting for me. Sorry for your loss, but she is happy I can assure you of that.

  3. Avatar photoAdrian
    November 8, 2020 @ 3:05 pm

    Thanks for sharing, I love to hear about near death experiences, my grandma and godmother both had them. That tall being did he show you something from the future?

    • Carmen Carmen
      November 8, 2020 @ 9:09 pm

      Yes he did. He showed me that I would be healing people and I’ve been doing it, in one way or another, since about a year after the accident. I’m not in the business of healing but I have made a real difference in a few people’s lives and my own. What happened to your relatives with their NDEs?

  4. Candy Candice Sanderson
    December 5, 2020 @ 7:42 am

    Carmen, fascinating post. Do you follow IANDS (International Association for Near-Death Studies)?

    Isn’t it interesting how your life shifts dramatically once you’ve had such a spiritually transformative event? It’s never the same again…and for the better. Looking forward to staying connected with you and your posts.

    • Carmen Carmen
      December 5, 2020 @ 5:00 pm

      Candice, how nice. Thank you so much. I look forward to staying connected to you too. It really is crazy how things change and shift when you have something like an NDE. It’s like you get to see it up close. So glad you are here!

      • Candy Candice Sanderson
        December 6, 2020 @ 8:12 am

        I was the speaker at one of IANDS monthly conferences last month. Getting to know the people at IANDS feels like a homecoming. Even though I haven’t had an NDE, I’ve learned that many spiritually transformative events share characteristics of NDEs.

        It’s fascinating to actually step into the field of the nonphysical. It changes your life and makes you view the world differently.

  5. Avatar photoHarris
    July 15, 2021 @ 8:48 pm

    Carmen that was so inspiring to me, I really got a lot out of it. Thanks.

    • Carmen Carmen
      July 17, 2021 @ 7:51 am

      Thank you Harris! It’s been a long time but I remember every detail. Over the years I feel like more understanding has come to me about why I need to finish this lifetime and not check out early. I feel the NDE made a lot of changes in me but sometimes life is still not easy.

      • Avatar photoHarris
        July 22, 2021 @ 8:13 pm

        So true Carmen, pitfalls and challenges keep us on our toes. Thanks

  6. Avatar photoJackie Burrows
    January 24, 2022 @ 3:31 pm

    What a wonderful site

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